A fitness and femininity website wouldn’t be the same without an article about how to give a lap dance. By that I mean all the important details that will provide that atmosphere which will make this dance happen.
This type of dance requires a certain atmosphere, so let’s talk about that real quick…
1.THE SPOT
First and foremost, it is important to create a spot that has
- Walls with warm colors,
- Inviting couch, which doesn’t have to be pink or red, but that may be helpful.
2.THE LIGHTING
Try to keep your room a little bit on the darker side, but also keep in mind to bring some dimmer lights.
I would stay away from super bright lights. You may keep your room dark and use either one or two little lamps or some candles with a nice smell. Probably I wouldn’t choose those very spiritual type of candles that you can feel in yoga studios, because I feel those would create a Zen atmosphere which is different from where we are heading.
Led backdrop lights are my personal favorite choices.
3.OUTFIT
Although the idea of the lap dance in general is to not have anything on by the end, however for that matter you want to wear something suggestive. Your best bets are sexy dresses, especially a mini dress like this:
Mini dresses are very handy (literally, lol) because it’s easy to slide them up as you shake your booty during the lap dance. You can also wear a long dress, but for the sake of the dance make sure it has a cut in the back, because it simply makes it easier to lean forward in front of your partner. A laced or a see-through lingerie underneath a dress like this you can’t go wrong with.
Bra with a nice thong or a sexy romper are all great options. Here is a hint from good options:
4. SHOES
Talking of shoes. Obviously, stripper shoes are gotos.
The reason of mentioning Pleaser stripper shoes in the first place because they are easy do floor work in and to slide down during lap dance or an exotic floor work, which quite frankly is a great ingredient of a lap dance.
Stilettos, ballroom shoes and other high heels (boots) are also perfect choices.
5.MUSIC
A catchy music that allows you to move sensually and seduce is an important part of the game. You can’t go wrong with the 3S when it comes to music:
SENSUAL
SLOW
SUGGESTIVE
You can choose R&B, hip hop or even pop music that could fall into the 3S category. Upbeat rock n roll (Guns and Roses, INXS Rolling Stones) music is another genre to spice things up.
Great examples for the 3S: Bruno Mars-Versace on the Floor, Ginuwine-Pony (little bit upbeat version of the 3S), Beyonce-Dance for You
6.Coreography
Once you set your space up for success the emphasis is on dance now. For that matter, please check out my article regarding the 5 most important lap dance moves, because if you put them together that will be your choreography.
If you want to see that choreography, watch my video about how to give a lap dance, because in the video I introduce the dancing as well.
I hope I was able to give you a lot of hints about how to give a lap dance for you partner. Now you just have to follow through with it.
